By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating
When it comes to love, some people just seem to have all the luck. They effortlessly attract partners who adore them, enjoy long-lasting relationships, and end up happily ever after. So, what's their secret? Is it a matter of fate, or is there something more to it?
You’ll notice that most of the “lucky ones” maintain a positive attitude; they have a strong sense of self-worth and radiate positivity, making them extra attractive. As they say, “attitude is everything” and it really does make all the difference. If you believe you deserve love, are lovable and that love is looking for you, chances are you’ll end up putting yourself into new situations and meeting more people with more openness.
How would you ever know you’re lucky if you didn’t take any risk? “Lucky ones” are not afraid to get uncomfortable, so they’re more likely to approach an attractive stranger or agree to a blind date. This curiosity fast-tracks social skills and makes it easier for them to know when they’ve met someone special. Like a positive attitude, the adventurous spirit is also something extremely attractive to others.
You’re more likely to end up lucky in love if you have a clear picture of what that loving relationship looks like. Lucky people tend to have a clear idea of what they want in a partner and relationship—and can communicate openly about it. They’re aware of their values, goals, and priorities, and don’t compromise. They aren’t afraid to walk away from a relationship that does not align with their vision of the future.
Lastly, lucky people tend to have a healthy relationship with themselves. They have a strong sense of identity and purpose outside of their relationships, which helps them maintain their own identity and a healthy balance between their personal and romantic lives. This healthy sense of self allows them to approach their relationships with a greater sense of self-awareness and emotional maturity, which can lead to more fulfilling connections.
Of course, there is an element of luck in love, but I believe we can create our own luck. Certain traits like a positive attitude, willingness to take risks, and a strong relationship with self can help us find the right person.