Upcoming LA Fire Fundraiser in Silicon Valley

Join us for an exceptional evening of philanthropy, wine, food, and amazing people at the 5 Star Rosewood Sand Hill - Luxury Hotel in Menlo Park. 

In the wake of the devastating fires that have swept through Los Angeles, our hearts go out to those affected. Now, more than ever, our community comes together—not just in support, but in action.

 We are honored to host an exclusive, invitation-only gathering bringing together the most influential minds of Silicon Valley for an evening of philanthropy, fine wine, and curated experiences. This intimate affair will offer a rare opportunity to connect with key leaders and changemakers—all united for a cause greater than ourselves.

The evening will feature a special guest who has personally experienced the devastation, offering a profound and moving perspective on the crisis. With live performances, a celebrated DJ, and an atmosphere of refined elegance, this will be a night to remember.

 100% of net proceeds will benefit the following 501(c)(3) organizations: California Community Foundation and Pasadena Humane Society, ensuring direct relief to those in urgent need.

This event is produced by Amy Andersen (CEO of Linx Dating), Neda Razavi (CEO of iSono Health) Lisa Ketih (Golden Gate Sotheby's International Realty), and AJ Gandhi (Board Member of Harvard Business School Association of Northern California)

Date: Wednesday, February 26, 2025
Time: 5:30–8:30 p.m.
Location: Rosewood Sand Hill Hotel (Main Ballroom)
2825 Sand Hill Rd, Menlo Park, CA 94025
Dress Code: Cocktail Attire Required

Registration closes on Wednesday, February 26, at 12 p.m. PT (or when sold out).

Tickets (includes program, beverages, and appetizers):
https://hbsanc.org/events/170581

• Early Bird (available until Feb 15): $175

• General Admission: $200

• At the Door: $250

All tickets are non-refundable and non-transferable.

Fun Date Ideas in Berkeley: Fish & Bird Izakaya and Beyond

By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating

Looking for the perfect spot for a fun, intimate date night in Berkeley? Whether you're coming from Marin (just a 35-minute drive away) or are lucky enough to live in the area, you’re in for a treat! Fish & Bird Izakaya offers a vibrant and modern dining experience that’s ideal for a pre-theater dinner or a relaxed night out with someone special. But the fun doesn’t have to stop there—Berkeley offers a variety of date ideas that can easily follow up a great meal.

Start with Dinner at Fish & Bird Izakaya

From the moment you step into Fish & Bird Izakaya, you’re greeted by a chic, modern atmosphere. Striking black drapes, intriguing lighting, and a vibe that’s both relaxed and upscale make this the perfect spot for a cozy yet sophisticated dinner. The friendly staff adds to the welcoming ambiance, making it an easy place to unwind and enjoy a great meal.

The food? Simply outstanding. If you’re a sushi lover, you’re in for a treat. I had five different types of tuna, each one more delicious than the last. For those who prefer something a little more adventurous, the wagyu served on a sizzling platter is a must-try—it’s cooked to perfection and adds a little theatrical flair to your meal.

And don’t forget dessert! The cheesecake is a standout, beautifully crafted by a local chef, while the refreshing sorbet—made by a family-run producer in Japan—is the perfect sweet and tart finale to an unforgettable meal.

Vibe: Modern, sophisticated, and perfect for a date night.

Extend the Evening with These Fun Berkeley Date Ideas

After an amazing dinner, there are plenty of fun, interesting, and unique places nearby to continue the night.

Catch a Movie at Rialto Cinemas Elmwood

If you’re in the mood for a cozy, intimate movie date, Rialto Cinemas Elmwood is the perfect spot. This charming, independent theater offers a mix of indie films, foreign films, and occasional classics. Its old-school ambiance sets the tone for a relaxed and romantic post-dinner experience, making it a great choice to round out your evening.

Vibe: Cozy, intimate, and perfect for a movie night.

Take a Sunset Walk at Lawrence Hall of Science (Seasonal)

For a unique and romantic experience, head over to Lawrence Hall of Science. This spot may be more family-focused during the day, but the outdoor terraces and stunning views of the Bay Area and Golden Gate Bridge are the perfect setting for a peaceful, romantic stroll—especially around sunset. Though it’s a bit further out, it’s still just a short drive from Shattuck Ave and offers one of the best scenic spots in Berkeley.

Vibe: Scenic, educational, and perfect for a sunset walk.

Whether you’re wrapping up a romantic dinner at Fish & Bird Izakaya, catching a flick, or enjoying a peaceful evening with a view, Berkeley has so much to offer for an unforgettable date night. With its mix of culture, food, and fun activities, you’re sure to create lasting memories with your special someone.

Pro Tip: If you're looking to make the evening even more special, why not grab a coffee or dessert at one of the nearby cafes after your movie or sunset walk? Berkeley is full of charming spots that are just waiting to be explored!

Happy dating!

Bay Area Date Ideas: Cozy Pub Vibes, Stunning Views, and Fun Games

By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating

Looking for a memorable date idea in the Bay Area? Whether you're a local or just visiting, there's no shortage of great places to enjoy good food, cozy atmospheres, and fun activities. Here are a few top spots perfect for a date – from charming English pub vibes and even a little friendly competition along the way.

1. Pelican Inn – English Pub Vibes with a View

Nestled along the scenic coast just outside of Marin, Pelican Inn is the perfect date spot if you want to enjoy a cozy atmosphere, delicious comfort food, and the bonus of breathtaking views. The drive to the Pelican Inn itself is stunning, winding through coastal roads with sweeping views of the Pacific Ocean, making the journey there part of the adventure. Once you arrive, you'll be greeted by a charming building reminiscent of an English pub with a big, welcoming fireplace that's perfect for colder months.

The food? Think hearty pub classics like fish and chips, shepherd’s pie, and bangers and mash – all served in a warm, welcoming environment. And here's the kicker: they have darts! Whether you're a dart pro or a beginner, it adds an extra layer of fun to the date. After your meal, you can take a stroll along the nearby beach, making it a perfect spot for a winter or fall date. A little friendly competition with darts followed by a romantic beach walk? Can’t get better than that.

2. Mersea – Waterfront Dining on Treasure Island

If you’re in the mood for spectacular views and a modern vibe, Mersea on Treasure Island is another fantastic choice. The owners of well-known Bay Area favorites like Epic, Water Bar, and now Hurrica in Redwood City have brought their expertise to Mersea, offering a menu that's both fresh and indulgent. From seafood to classic American dishes, the food here is top-notch.

But the real highlight is the view. You can enjoy sweeping panoramas of San Francisco's skyline, the Bay Bridge, and the Golden Gate Bridge – a truly unbeatable backdrop for a romantic date or family outing. If you're looking for something extra fun, Mersea has games for both kids and adults. Whether you’re tossing a bean bag or playing cornhole, the playful atmosphere adds a unique touch to your meal. The laid-back but stylish ambiance makes it ideal for a relaxed yet memorable date night.

3. GIorgio’s – Classic Italian Romance

If you’re craving something a little more traditional casual but still with plenty of charm, Georgio’s in the Bay Area is a fantastic pick. Known for its cozy ambiance and great pizza and other classic Italian dishes, it’s the perfect setting for a casual fun lunch or dinner.

Why These Spots Stand Out:

• Pelican Inn offers a cozy, rustic pub experience with the bonus of outdoor fun (darts and a beach walk!).

• Mersea boasts incredible food and drinks, unbeatable views of the city, and games to add a playful touch to your date.

• Georgio’s is ideal for a casual fun pizza place after going to the beach or other SF activities.

From beautiful coastal drives to breathtaking views and delicious food, these spots offer something for everyone. Whether you’re looking to have a relaxed night with great conversation, enjoy a little competition, or just soak in the views, these Bay Area gems will set the stage for a perfect date.

So, next time you're planning a night out, consider one of these places – they're sure to create a memorable experience for you and your special someone!

Mankeeping: Are Women Doing More Than Their Fair Share of Emotional Labor?

By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating

In many relationships, women often find themselves stepping into the role of emotional caretaker. This phenomenon, sometimes referred to as "mankeeping," involves women taking on the mental and emotional load of supporting their male partners—especially during times of crisis, uncertainty, or personal struggle. While emotional caretaking can strengthen the bond between partners, it can also carry a heavy burden, leaving women overwhelmed as they juggle their own responsibilities alongside managing their partner’s emotional and practical needs.

The Emotional Burden of Mankeeping

Research suggests that men often have fewer close friendships and tend to rely heavily on their romantic partners for emotional support. In fact, studies have shown that a significant number of men report having no close friends at all. This lack of external support means that women frequently bear the responsibility of managing their partner's emotional state, reassuring them during difficult times, and even taking care of practical matters like organizing social events or handling family obligations.

This dynamic creates a scenario where women are not only carrying their own emotional load but are also responsible for managing their partner's emotional health. While this may feel necessary in the moment and can contribute to a sense of closeness, it can also lead to emotional burnout, particularly if the caretaking is not reciprocated.

Why Women End Up in the Caretaking Role

The tendency for women to take on this emotional labor isn't just about love or partnership—it’s a societal and cultural issue. From a young age, women are often socialized to be caregivers, nurturing figures who are expected to maintain harmony, soothe tensions, and put the emotional needs of others before their own. Men, on the other hand, are typically encouraged to be stoic, self-reliant, and avoid expressing vulnerability. These traditional gender roles create an imbalance in emotional caregiving within relationships, with women often shouldering more of the burden.

While many women willingly embrace the role of emotional caretaker, this imbalance can be exhausting, especially when the emotional needs of the man are not met in return. As a result, women may start to feel overwhelmed, neglected, or even resentful. This leads to the question: How can emotional caretaking be more balanced?

The Case for Mutual Emotional Support

Emotional labor, when unbalanced, can cause resentment and burnout. The key to a healthy relationship is mutual support and care. Both partners should feel that their emotional needs are being met in equal measure, and that their vulnerability is being respected. A relationship should be a two-way street, where both partners provide emotional support to each other—whether it's offering a listening ear, providing reassurance, or managing shared responsibilities.

If one partner consistently takes on the role of emotional caretaker, it can lead to an unhealthy dynamic where one person's emotional well-being is sacrificed for the other. This imbalance can make it difficult for women to feel truly supported when they themselves need emotional care.

Key Takeaways:

1. Recognize the Signs of Emotional Labor: If you’re feeling emotionally drained from constantly managing your partner’s needs, it’s time to assess the balance in your relationship. Are you carrying the emotional load on your own? Are you receiving the same level of care and support in return?

2. Encourage Open Conversations About Emotional Needs: Men may not always express their emotional needs in the same way women do. It’s important to have open conversations about how both partners can support each other emotionally. If your partner tends to keep their feelings to themselves, gently encourage them to open up and share what they’re going through.

3. Create a Supportive Community Outside of the Relationship: It’s vital for both partners to have support systems outside the relationship—friends, family, or professionals—to help carry some of the emotional burden. Encourage your partner to nurture friendships and seek support outside of the relationship.

4. Practice Mutual Emotional Care: A healthy relationship requires mutual emotional care. Whether it’s comforting each other after a tough day or sharing your feelings in an open, vulnerable way, emotional support should be balanced. Both partners should feel like they can lean on each other.

5. Don’t Be Afraid to Set Boundaries: If you’re feeling overwhelmed, it’s important to set emotional boundaries. It’s okay to say no when your own emotional needs aren’t being met. Setting boundaries is essential for maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

Homework for the Reader:

1. Self-Reflect: Take some time to reflect on your relationship dynamic. Are you playing the role of the emotional caretaker? If so, how does this impact your own emotional health and well-being?

2. Have a Conversation: Talk to your partner about emotional support. Ask them how they are feeling emotionally and whether they feel supported by you. Share how you feel as well—open and honest communication is key.

3. Identify Your Support System: Identify at least one or two people (outside your partner) who can help support you emotionally. Having a broader support network can alleviate some of the pressure that comes from trying to be everything to your partner.

4. Create a Balance Plan: Think about ways you can create a more balanced dynamic. Perhaps you can find ways to share more of the emotional load or encourage your partner to seek external support. Balance is key to a healthy relationship.

Friendsgiving

By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating

If you don’t already have plans for the Thanksgiving holiday, consider reaching out to your friends, posting on your social media, or asking your colleagues, as you might not be alone in wanting to share the day.  This is a wonderful opportunity to connect with those who may need it most, so let’s make sure everyone has a place to feel welcome and appreciated this Thanksgiving.

As I write this, I’m reminded of some people in my life who would truly appreciate an invitation.  One close friend is navigating the challenges of a divorce and will be spending her first Thanksgiving away from her family, and I know she could use some emotional support… and a slice of warm apple pie à la mode wouldn’t hurt either! 

If you’re not a natural or relaxed cook, do not fear!  Although I love eating, I am one of those people who admittedly stresses out with multiple guests hovering around my kitchen if I’m cooking.  Luckily for our family, we have figured out an excellent formula that makes me still feel like the hostess with the mostest.  Plenty of restaurants and grocers (like Whole Foods) offer complete or a la carte solutions for Thanksgiving dinner.  Since I live in Silicon Valley, I call upon a local grocer, Robert’s Market and pre-order tons of items like sweet potatoes, creamed spinach, ham, turkey, mashed potatoes…ok so don’t judge, I order most everything LOL. And guess, what? No stress, everyone loves it and eats it. Plus, I can focus on my guests and not burning the stuffing. ;-) 

You can also encourage guests to bring a dish to share if they wish, or suggest they contribute wine or dessert to the celebration. To make things even more interesting, invite your friends to bring along a single friend of the opposite sex. This approach can help create a diverse and engaging table filled with fascinating guests from all backgrounds. Not only is this idea fun, but it can also create a more intimate and fulfilling holiday experience than you might expect. 

Enlist the help of a friend to help you decorate the table the day before your party. Even the simplest autumn decor can work wonders! Think about using votive candles, collecting fall leaves or branches from a hike, or scattering a few mini pumpkins from your local Trader Joe's, and curating the perfect Spotify playlist to set the mood. In fact, we just put one together for your upcoming Friendsgiving… Enjoy….our gift to you! Link to Thanksgiving Spotify Playlist!