Silicon Valley Delivers for Los Angeles: A Night of Heartfelt Gratitude

By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating

Last week, Silicon Valley truly showed up for Los Angeles. My amazing co-hosts AJ Ghandi (Marlin Equity Partners), Neda Razavi (iSono Health), Lisa Keith (Golden Gate Sotheby's International Realty), and I were beyond thrilled to host a magical evening at the beautiful Rosewood Sand Hill for our Fire Relief Fundraiser.

The energy in the room was nothing short of electric, with 300 incredible guests coming together to raise a remarkable $100K for the California Community Foundation and Pasadena Humane. Our heartfelt thanks go out to our generous sponsors for making this night possible.

A special thank you to our talented entertainers—Lawrence Beamen, the dancers from Menlo-Atherton PTA, and Studio 650—for filling the room with so much passion, grace, and energy. You brought something truly special to the evening.

I was deeply moved by the outpouring of love and support from everyone who attended. The life and energy in that room were overwhelming, and I couldn’t hold back the tears of gratitude as I had the honor of having my parents, sister, and family there with me. It was a night I will never forget.

As many of you know, the recent wildfires in Los Angeles have left an indelible mark on our community. Between January 7 and 31, 2025, these fires devastated over 40,000 acres, destroyed more than 12,300 structures, and tragically claimed at least 29 lives. At the peak of the crisis, nearly 200,000 residents were evacuated, showing just how widespread and intense this disaster was.

Though significant progress has been made in the recovery process, including substantial completion of hazardous debris cleanup, the long road to full recovery is far from over. The economic toll is staggering, with losses estimated at $150 billion, reminding us that the need for support is ongoing and urgent.

That’s why events like these matter. Your presence, your generosity, and your unwavering commitment to the cause are vital to our community’s recovery and resilience. Together, we can rebuild, heal, and emerge stronger than ever.

To everyone who attended, thank you from the bottom of my heart. Your support is making a lasting impact.

If you couldn’t attend but still want to make a difference, there’s still time to contribute. Every contribution counts! Click here.

Together, we rise.

The Law of Attraction: Defining Your Desire and Setting Intentions

By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating

The Law of Attraction, often discussed in metaphysical circles, operates on the premise that we can attract the circumstances, people, and opportunities we desire through focused thought, intention, and alignment with universal energy. However, this process requires more than passive wishing; it demands clarity, intentionality, and a willingness to take action.

1. The Precision of Desire: Asking for What You Want

To begin using the Law of Attraction effectively, it’s crucial to first understand exactly what you desire. The universe responds to specificity. The more you can clearly define your desires, the more accurately the universe can align with them. This is not simply about vague wishes but about honing your vision with precision.

Think about what your ideal reality looks like. To assist you in this, you might consider visualizing your desired outcome as vividly as possible:

• What does your daily life look like when you have what you want?

• Who are the people surrounding you?

• How do you feel once your desires have materialized?

The clearer you are about what you want, the more tangible your vision will become. For example:

• “I want to feel a deep sense of peace and unconditional love in my relationship.”

• “I seek to feel respected and valued for my professional contributions.”

• “I want to build a home that serves as both a sanctuary and a gathering place for loved ones.”

The specificity of your request allows the universe to understand your energy and your intentions, providing it with a clearer pathway to respond to your needs.

2. Cultivating Belief: Expectation as a Driver of Action

Once you've articulated your desires, belief becomes the most crucial step. The Law of Attraction is not a mere wishful thinking exercise; it requires the conviction that what you desire is not only possible, but inevitable. Without belief, there is no momentum, and without momentum, the energy of attraction cannot fully manifest.

Maintaining positive belief is essential. You must genuinely expect that your desires will manifest, even if the path to realization doesn’t unfold as anticipated. The universe operates on its own timeline and logic. Trusting that the unfolding of events will align with your goals, even if the process diverges from your initial expectations, is fundamental to harnessing this universal force.

3. Aligning Action with Intention

The Law of Attraction is not a passive process but an active one. While visualization and belief are necessary components, they must be coupled with tangible action. To attract your desires, you must move toward them. This means aligning your actions, thoughts, and energy with your goals.

If you are seeking a fulfilling relationship, for example, you can begin by:

• Identifying and affirming the qualities you seek in a partner.

• Opening yourself to new opportunities and relationships, even if they don’t look exactly as you expected.

• Engaging with others in ways that reflect the love and openness you wish to receive.

When your actions align with your desires, the Law of Attraction finds the path to fulfill them.

The Biggest Turn-On for Single Women in San Francisco? A Man Who Actually Knows How to Be a Gentleman

By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating

Let’s be honest: in the dating world today, a lot of men are really dropping the ball. But what actually gets a single woman’s heart racing? A man who acts like a gentleman. Yes, that’s right—a guy who’s thoughtful, attentive, and genuinely makes her feel like she’s the only woman in the room.

Here’s the kicker: it's not just about holding the door open or paying for dinner. It’s about showing real interest—not just checking your phone every five minutes or scanning the room for your next option. Women want a man who is present, who looks them in the eye and makes them feel seen and heard. It's about the intentionality of his actions: is he saying what he means? Does he end the night with a clear, confident declaration that he wants to see her again? And not just as a throwaway comment—actually following through.

Oh, and here’s another shocker: men who actually call when they say they will. Sounds simple, right? But so many men miss the mark here, either ghosting or playing the "wait three days" game. Newsflash: if you're genuinely interested, stop acting like you’re some prize to be won and just show it. Be direct, be sincere.

Too many men in San Francisco have bought into the idea that being aloof or playing hard to get is the way to go, but all it really does is leave women frustrated. In an era of mind games and endless options, a man who just treats her well is a breath of fresh air.

So, if you want to get a woman’s attention and keep it, stop trying to be mysterious and start being real. Because being a gentleman? That’s not outdated—it’s actually the ultimate power move.

Want a healthy relationship? It starts with you.

By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating

Want a healthy relationship? It starts with you.

Your Physical Health:
You can’t show up fully for someone else if you’re not taking care of yourself. Eat nourishing foods, move your body daily, and prioritize sleep. Your physical health is the foundation for everything else—when you feel good in your body, everything else falls into place.

Your Mental Health:
Stress and unresolved emotional issues will affect all areas of your life, including your relationships. Learn to manage your stress, get outside and connect with nature, and don’t be afraid to see a therapist if there are emotional wounds you’re still carrying. Taking care of your mental health is just as important as taking care of your physical health.

Your Finances:
A healthy relationship with money is key to a stable life—and a stable relationship. Get your finances in order by building up savings, paying down any debt, and learning about investing. Feeling secure about your finances will give you peace of mind and help you be a more confident and grounded partner.

Your Job:
No one wants to be around someone who’s constantly complaining about work. If you’re unhappy in your job, start exploring other opportunities. You deserve to be doing work that excites and fulfills you, and being stuck in a job you hate will only drain your energy and affect your overall happiness.

Fun Date Ideas in Berkeley: Fish & Bird Izakaya and Beyond

By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating

Looking for the perfect spot for a fun, intimate date night in Berkeley? Whether you're coming from Marin (just a 35-minute drive away) or are lucky enough to live in the area, you’re in for a treat! Fish & Bird Izakaya offers a vibrant and modern dining experience that’s ideal for a pre-theater dinner or a relaxed night out with someone special. But the fun doesn’t have to stop there—Berkeley offers a variety of date ideas that can easily follow up a great meal.

Start with Dinner at Fish & Bird Izakaya

From the moment you step into Fish & Bird Izakaya, you’re greeted by a chic, modern atmosphere. Striking black drapes, intriguing lighting, and a vibe that’s both relaxed and upscale make this the perfect spot for a cozy yet sophisticated dinner. The friendly staff adds to the welcoming ambiance, making it an easy place to unwind and enjoy a great meal.

The food? Simply outstanding. If you’re a sushi lover, you’re in for a treat. I had five different types of tuna, each one more delicious than the last. For those who prefer something a little more adventurous, the wagyu served on a sizzling platter is a must-try—it’s cooked to perfection and adds a little theatrical flair to your meal.

And don’t forget dessert! The cheesecake is a standout, beautifully crafted by a local chef, while the refreshing sorbet—made by a family-run producer in Japan—is the perfect sweet and tart finale to an unforgettable meal.

Vibe: Modern, sophisticated, and perfect for a date night.

Extend the Evening with These Fun Berkeley Date Ideas

After an amazing dinner, there are plenty of fun, interesting, and unique places nearby to continue the night.

Catch a Movie at Rialto Cinemas Elmwood

If you’re in the mood for a cozy, intimate movie date, Rialto Cinemas Elmwood is the perfect spot. This charming, independent theater offers a mix of indie films, foreign films, and occasional classics. Its old-school ambiance sets the tone for a relaxed and romantic post-dinner experience, making it a great choice to round out your evening.

Vibe: Cozy, intimate, and perfect for a movie night.

Take a Sunset Walk at Lawrence Hall of Science (Seasonal)

For a unique and romantic experience, head over to Lawrence Hall of Science. This spot may be more family-focused during the day, but the outdoor terraces and stunning views of the Bay Area and Golden Gate Bridge are the perfect setting for a peaceful, romantic stroll—especially around sunset. Though it’s a bit further out, it’s still just a short drive from Shattuck Ave and offers one of the best scenic spots in Berkeley.

Vibe: Scenic, educational, and perfect for a sunset walk.

Whether you’re wrapping up a romantic dinner at Fish & Bird Izakaya, catching a flick, or enjoying a peaceful evening with a view, Berkeley has so much to offer for an unforgettable date night. With its mix of culture, food, and fun activities, you’re sure to create lasting memories with your special someone.

Pro Tip: If you're looking to make the evening even more special, why not grab a coffee or dessert at one of the nearby cafes after your movie or sunset walk? Berkeley is full of charming spots that are just waiting to be explored!

Happy dating!