Friendsgiving

By Amy Andersen, Founder and CEO of Linx Dating

If you don’t already have plans for the Thanksgiving holiday, consider reaching out to your friends, posting on your social media, or asking your colleagues, as you might not be alone in wanting to share the day.  This is a wonderful opportunity to connect with those who may need it most, so let’s make sure everyone has a place to feel welcome and appreciated this Thanksgiving.

As I write this, I’m reminded of some people in my life who would truly appreciate an invitation.  One close friend is navigating the challenges of a divorce and will be spending her first Thanksgiving away from her family, and I know she could use some emotional support… and a slice of warm apple pie à la mode wouldn’t hurt either! 

If you’re not a natural or relaxed cook, do not fear!  Although I love eating, I am one of those people who admittedly stresses out with multiple guests hovering around my kitchen if I’m cooking.  Luckily for our family, we have figured out an excellent formula that makes me still feel like the hostess with the mostest.  Plenty of restaurants and grocers (like Whole Foods) offer complete or a la carte solutions for Thanksgiving dinner.  Since I live in Silicon Valley, I call upon a local grocer, Robert’s Market and pre-order tons of items like sweet potatoes, creamed spinach, ham, turkey, mashed potatoes…ok so don’t judge, I order most everything LOL. And guess, what? No stress, everyone loves it and eats it. Plus, I can focus on my guests and not burning the stuffing. ;-) 

You can also encourage guests to bring a dish to share if they wish, or suggest they contribute wine or dessert to the celebration. To make things even more interesting, invite your friends to bring along a single friend of the opposite sex. This approach can help create a diverse and engaging table filled with fascinating guests from all backgrounds. Not only is this idea fun, but it can also create a more intimate and fulfilling holiday experience than you might expect. 

Enlist the help of a friend to help you decorate the table the day before your party. Even the simplest autumn decor can work wonders! Think about using votive candles, collecting fall leaves or branches from a hike, or scattering a few mini pumpkins from your local Trader Joe's, and curating the perfect Spotify playlist to set the mood. In fact, we just put one together for your upcoming Friendsgiving… Enjoy….our gift to you! Link to Thanksgiving Spotify Playlist!